In the Mingyi Daifang Lu, it is said: “What the emperor approves may not be right; what he rejects may not be wrong.” Do not blindly follow authority. Truth is discovered through your own experience. Others’ opinions may not fit your path—learn to trust your own judgment.
The Little Window’s Light reminds us: “Words spoken in joy often break trust; words spoken in anger often break grace.” Joy makes us promise too much; anger makes us say too much. Pause before you speak—calm words carry wisdom.
From the Family Letters of Zeng Guofan: “A diligent family thrives; a diligent person lives frugally and never knows poverty.” There are no born paupers, only those unwilling to work. Hard work and thrift build a steady life; laziness leads only to decline.
Journey to the West teaches: “Though mountains are high, there is always a path; though rivers are deep, there is always a boat.” No trouble is beyond resolution. Stay calm, and a way will appear.
Dream of the Red Chamber laments: “Ten thousand ounces of gold are easier found than a single true friend.” True friendship is rare and precious. Keep a gentle distance—too close invites conflict, too far breeds estrangement. Treasure those who truly know you.