“What the ruler approves may not be right; what he rejects may not be wrong.” From *Waiting for the Dawn*. Do not blindly trust authority. Truth is something you must discern for yourself. Others’ opinions may not suit your path—stand firm in your own judgment.
“Words spoken in joy are often broken; words spoken in anger often offend.” From *Notes from a Small Window*. When happy, we make promises we cannot keep; when angry, we say things that wound. Think before you speak—words, once spoken, cannot be taken back.
“Diligence brings prosperity; frugality prevents poverty.” From *Family Letters of Zeng Guofan*. No one is born poor—only lazy. A family that works hard and lives simply will never lack. Those who fear effort and seek ease will only sink deeper.
“No mountain is too high to climb; no river too deep to cross.” From *Journey to the West*. Every difficulty has a way through. Do not panic; calm your heart, and the path will appear.
“A thousand ounces of gold are easier to find than a true friend.” From *Dream of the Red Chamber*. True friendship is rare and precious. Cherish it. Keep a gentle distance—too close invites trouble, too far breeds estrangement.