The wisdom of our ancestors reveals the truth of kinship.
Aunt on your father’s side may feel close, but she is married out.
Aunt on your mother’s side is kind, yet not of your blood.
The bond with uncle on your mother’s side is strong;
so is the tie with uncle on your father’s side.
Blood kin of the same clan endure for generations,
while cousins from different branches drift apart.
A wealthy nephew may not know his poor uncle,
but a poor nephew will still honor his uncle’s grave.
Teach your child in public, advise your wife in private.
When buying a house, check the beams;
when choosing a wife, observe her mother.
These ancient sayings are not about coldness,
but about seeing clearly, cherishing true bonds,
and letting go of what fades.
In this clarity, life finds its balance.