In life, interests often shape relationships. Help in emergencies, but not in chronic poverty; assist the slow, but not the lazy.
When poor, avoid frequent visits to relatives; when rich, don’t flaunt in your hometown. Overstaying your welcome annoys, and too much closeness can distance even family.
A beautiful woman pleases the eye, but a wise one pleases the heart. The world mocks poverty, not dishonor, and admires wealth, not its source.
When a general lives, even his dog is honored; when he dies, no one buries him. Power fades; only character lasts.
A soft-hearted man stays poor; a soft-hearted woman loses her ground. Money between relatives often ends ties.
These old sayings cut through human nature. Understand them, and you’ll see life more clearly—and live it more wisely.