Slander is like wind—it passes without a trace. Beauty is like dew—it touches but soon fades.
The ancients said, "Listen to both sides and you will be enlightened; heed only one side and you will be left in the dark." When we indulge in unverified gossip or whispered rumors, we lose our inner clarity. A true person does not let hearsay disturb the heart. Words without proof should enter one ear and leave the other, leaving no room for resentment or unnecessary anger.
As for physical allure, the first challenge in life is desire. Without a strong and upright spirit, one can easily be misled by appearances, lost in fantasy or harmful behavior. To overcome this, we must cultivate inner strength and guard our thoughts. When our heart is steady, temptation loses its grip.
Even in marriage, the principle of moderation applies. Mutual respect and self-restraint lead to lasting harmony and well-being.
True wisdom lies not in distant ideals, but in the quiet choices we make in every moment.