A parent’s words shape a child’s destiny.
Tell a child he can, and he will grow into that belief. Tell him he can’t, and he will shrink into doubt. Cheer for him, and he will surprise you again and again. Compare him to others, and he will prove you right—by giving up.
A child’s heart is like a mirror. When you affirm her, she searches for proof to become what you see. When you criticize her, she finds evidence to confirm she is not enough.
Words can heal or wound. Instead of carving scars with criticism, light the path with encouragement. In time, a child becomes what you say. That is the truest blessing a parent can give.